Sexaphobia

(DISCLAIMER: These abstract thoughts may have similarities to what you as the reader may have experienced. Some of my writings are first-base reading, but occasionally my adaptable thoughts aim for the fence. Different stages of life help us realize that, at times, growing pains can be an ironic parody. Chronicles are just experiences mixed with a theatrical edge that can be incorporated with real life situations. Sometimes I say things that are serious and put them in a joke form, so people can enjoy them. We laugh to keep from crying)

Making the transition from a teen to adulthood is one of the most enlightening periods in your life. It is the stage where you get confirmation that the things that you thought you knew about life, are not as concrete as what your premature intuition lead you to believe. Despite age not being the primary definition of an individual, its the years in life that gives added on experience and consistent opportunities for one to see the world out of a scope that can only be introduced by sheer maturation. So, when an older individual say that youth is wasted on the young, it is not a generalized attack on young people, rather its acknowledging the fact that the genuine appreciation for the simple things in life doesn't come around until its almost too late to fully experience the elements.
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"Sexaphobia" by Senseless Genius
Motivation to write can come from multiple sources. Even during my most modest reflections, I can admit with pride that I live vicariously through my own personal growth. I am motivated by my experiences and inspired by the ability to learn from the people and things around me. However, casual conversations with some individuals leave deep impressions on me. Impressions that are so absorbing that it makes me want to write about it.
Now the context clues surrounding this posting would lead you to assume that this is going to be a narrative about mature sexuality. You would be accurate with that assumption, however, its not as simple as magnifying the basic principles of being comfortable with sex. In a certain degree, most adults are in control of their channels of sexuality. Nonetheless, it takes exposure, encounters, and practical understanding for a person to erase all of the pre-existing perceptions about sex that are instilled in your mind in the early years. For example, a young mindset supports the idea that oral sex is an experience that can only be offered as an exchange. Some would go as far as omitting this sexual act from their routine because of inexperience or disgust. Presenting the concept of oral sex to a less developed mind, might get responses such as "If I eat a girl pussy, she gotta give me some head", or the female version, I don't suck dick, I'm not a hoe like some of these girls". These are ideas that have been forced into the mind by public discernment and close minded individuals. Yet, it takes an integrated understanding of life's pleasures and an open mind for sensuality to understand that these sexual gestures don't always have to be an act of trading off or a bargaining tool, nor does engaging in this level of foreplay make you a "hoe" or "freak". A sexual appetite can be fed (no pun intended) in more ways than the traditional intercourse. Moreover, admitting that you enjoy the sensation or arousal that this extent of eroticism present, is not a degrade of your character or standards. If you ever get the opportunity to converse with a young person who has relations with people that are a lot older, and ask them whats the benefit or upside to being intimate with an older individual, you probably will get consistent responses. Most would give credit to the experience and their ability to treat the different levels of sex as the spices in life, rather than an indiscretion or something that will define how your peers view you. A young woman worries about the judgment of her friends in regards to sexual decisions. In addition, she fears that the things that happen in the bedroom will forever define her reputation. A young man functions off of pure adrenaline which is produced by the need to impress his friends and any person that he meets. Furthermore, his sexual maturation usually develops at a slower rate than the woman, which causes him to have an one track mind. This means that sex for him is an experience where its solely about his satisfaction and any secondary efforts put out by him are followed by unsubtle expectations. The two things that both young minds (male & female) have in common is the 1). fear to enjoy sex as an unrestricted, non-judgmental, selfless form of intimacy and 2). a naive state of mind. This is where maturity becomes a significant factor. Giving the individual the reassurance and security of knowing that sex does not have to be a taboo concept. Intimacy, whether in the form of fore-play or intercourse, can be some of the most pleasurable and satisfying moments in life. Therefore, if done in a safe, healthy, and tasteful (not the flavor, but actual class) manner, sex should leave no levels of remorse. Now I don't want my audience to think that I'm promoting a sex crazed world, but I do think that the dark cloud that hoovers over sex is sometimes undeserving. How often has good sex lifted your morale for an entire work/school day? If you're lucky, the answer would be more often than you can remember. If you're not so lucky, maybe you shouldn't work so hard, or in this case, work a little harder. As for my overall outlook on sexual favors, I think sex should be a full course experience. Intercourse is always going to be the main event, but the events leading up to it can be just as enticing. Also, to my selfish participants out in the world, you have to understand sex is a team sport. A selfless act of giving and not receiving isn't the let down that your friends want you to believe. Look at foreplay as warming up the car. In order for that drive to have the maximum enjoyment, you have to put in the necessary work. Whats beneficial for the receiver will eventually be favorable for the giver. Reaching a sexual peak is a satisfying highlight, but the occurrences along the way are worth their wait. Being "young, dumb, and full of cum" is a label that is given to the youth by older individuals. Replacing the "dumb" notion with "experienced" is not a rhyme-worthy insert, but its definitely a better credential to be associated with. Before this narration becomes a coaching lesson about sex, I want you to know that prior to the teacher picking up the chalk and pointing to the board, he/she had to sit in the seat and learn. Don't let fear and/or friends perception stunt your sexual growth. The satisfaction of your life can be produced by you, but it also can be taken away by others. The things that you decide to do or not to do, might be impressive to your platonic friends, but unfortunately they are not the ones who are getting in bed with you.
I leave You with my Final Thought of the day…
In life, you live and you learn. Hopefully, you do ample amount of learning while you're living. Its nothing wrong with receiving a sexual favor, nor is it wrong to give one. When it comes to sex, fair exchange is no robbery. When implemented with the right person, under the right circumstances, sex can make a conversion from being a guilty pleasure to your erotic bliss. You might be concerned with the views of your peers. But don't fret, the things that you are thinking about doing, most likely they have been doing behind close doors for years. Though, I did not focus on it too much in my narrative, I always want to promote a safe sexual experience. Sex is one of the elements in life where your decisions not only affect you. Wrap it up!
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